Showing posts with label romance writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label romance writing. Show all posts

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Writing runs in the family

I've recently been doing some research into family genealogy and as part of that my parents have pulled out a few newspaper clippings, letters, etc. to help me find more information. Yesterday, as my father rummaged through papers, he found a poem he had written when I was 2 years old.

I hope it touches you as it touched me. I'm glad to know writing runs in the family.


D is for all the Devine joy that she has brought to us

Or the Devil in her eyes.

E is for all the Eternal happiness that we can only hope she can have

Or Every mischievous deed she can do.

N is for how Naïve all children are

Or how Nice her mother wants her to be.

I is for all the Intensity she puts into her playing

Or how Inviting she is to hold.

S is for how Shy we all want our little girls to be

Or how silly they really can be.

E is for Everything that little girls are to their fathers

Or Everything that my little girl, DENISE, is to me.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Gone Phishing

No, I'm not talking about the kind of fishing where you use a rod, reel, and bait.

The kind of phishing I am referring to is the most common form of social engineering. Before I delve too deep, let me take a step back and define phishing. Phishing is the process of falsely posing as a legitimate enterprise through an email or website in an attempt to acquire sensitive information such as usernames, passwords and credit card details. In short, it’s a scam.

Hmm. Maybe phishing does involve rod, reel, and bait. Rod would be the email or website you receive or visit. Bait would be the load of crap the supposed legitimate email or website is spewing. And the Reel is the link you click on that takes you to the place where you put in the information they just scammed from you.

Let's get into a little more detail. One example of phishing is a fraudulent email or website.

Phishing scams employ fraudulent e-mail messages or Web sites that try to trick you into revealing personal information.

Who has not received an e-mail message appearing to come from your bank or other financial institution that asks you to update your account information?

The e-mail message includes a link that appears to go to a legitimate site, but really takes you to a spoofed or fake Web site.

Does this email message look familiar? Or have you seen a similar email message in your inbox?

Dear First Bank User,

As a courtesy to our valued customers, First Bank conducts regular account verification processes.

In order to ensure your account information is not made vulnerable please visit http://www.firstbank.com.aaccount-update-info.com.

Please click on the above link to our website to confirm or update your account information. If you do not do this within 48 hours, you will not be able to use your First Bank account for 30 days.

Sincerely,

First Bank


**If you enter your login, password, or other sensitive information, a criminal could and would use it to steal your identity.**

How can you identify Phishing emails?

If you don't see your name, be suspicious. Notice the generic greeting. Internet criminals tend to send phishing emails in large batches and to save typing time the criminals use generic names like "First Bank Customer".

If you don't see "https", do not proceed. Notice the forged link. Even if a link has a name you recognize somewhere in it, it does not mean it links to the legitimate company. Roll your mouse over the link and see if the pop-up matches what appears in the email. If there is a discrepancy, DO NOT click on the link. Notice how the link starts with “http”. Secure websites where it is safe to enter personal information begin with "https" — the "s" stands for secure.

If you receive an email requesting your personal information, it is probably a phishing attempt. The whole point of sending phishing email is to trick you into providing your personal information.

If there is a sense of urgency, be suspicious. Notice the time sensitivity. The faster the criminal gets your information, the faster the criminal can move on to another victim. Internet criminals want you to provide your personal information now. They do this by making you think something has happened that requires you to act fast.

If you see misspellings or bad grammar, do not proceed. Phishing e-mail messages often include misspellings, poor use of grammar, threats, and exaggerations.


Tune in tomorrow when I discuss Spear Phishing.

In the meantime, DO NOT reveal any personal information in e-mail or online unless you know who you are dealing with and why. Additionally, make sure you are in a secure environment.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Could your neighbor be a romance writer?

This weekend, Sausan Cragin, author of Nuclear Nebraska and member of the New Hampshire Romance Writers had an article she wrote published in the Concord Monitor, a local newspaper. Is your neighbor a romance writer?

The article is entertaining, interesting, and educational. Take a look at the article, read it, share it with your friends. And the next time you are out and about whether at the grocery store, in a bookstore, at Target or Wal-Mart, pick up romance novel, flip to the back and read the bio of the author. Find out if she is from your neighborhood.

Or when you are out to eat, glance around. Do you see a woman sitting there with a notebook and pen writing away, laughing at nothing, or maybe she has a tiny little computer sitting in front of her, her fingers flying over the keys, making faces at the screen while she types?

She could be a romance writer. Or the romance writer could be sitting there with a companion and instead of listening to the person sitting across from her, she is tuned in to a conversation between two strangers and taking mental notes for her own novel. Be careful what you say in a low whisper. :-)

Next time you are out, pick up a romance, take it home and have a good read. It's the best therapy for a little mental break and a lot of relaxation. Happy reading!

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

How do Computers and Romance Relate?

Romantic Techno-Thriller

So, you're wondering what that is. Good. It is a mix of technology and romance.

What do computers have to do with romance?

Besides online dating? Could be everything!

Thanks to a push from author Jessica James http://bookexposure.blogspot.com/ who suggested I write an article that discusses technology and some terrific article ideas from my publisher's loop http://www.lldreamspell.com, I wrote an article this weekend that revolves around how I combine computer technology with romantic fiction. This is my brand! Only took me a year to realize what that meant, but now I get it. Woot!

You see, all my novels are a mix of some kind of technology, romance, and suspense. I'm going to coin my brand as "romantic techno-thriller." To read the first article around this subject, please click this link to see the published article on http://ezinearticles.com/?How-Your-Antagonist-Can-Antagonize-Your-Protagonist&id=2363497

Let me know what you think!

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Gardening and Writing

There is nothing like a long day in the yard, digging and planting, and adding color to get the creative mind flowing.

While I was out there in the beautiful New England sun getting filthy dirty, I came up with a new writing prompt.

Digging a hole for her pansies. . .

Have fun and let me know what you come up with.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Countdown to love scene discussion - Day 2

First, let's start with yesterday's post. The 3 elements of a love scene are. . .

Place, action, and emotion. The most important element being emotion just like Ceri mentioned in her comment.

What your characters do and where they do it, is not as important as why they do it and how it changes them and their relationship afterward. For a love scene to be satisfying it must change the relationship between the hero and heroine. It can bring them together, pull them apart, make them question the other person's motives, even their own motives. Those emotions help propel the story forward.

Here is an example from my book, It Happens in Threes. This is the beginning of the first love scene between the hero and heroine.

“Hmmm. . .my favorite idea is. . .” His sentence trailed off as his mouth crushed down on hers. The kiss sent heat streaking through her, overwhelming in its intensity.

She knew she should protest – needed to – couldn’t – really didn’t want to.

This was a mistake of gigantic proportions. They were friends, not lovers.

Can you see how the heroine was feeling?


Next tidbit: Sexual tension is more important than the act itself. Remember anticipation makes the physical act that much sweeter.

So the question here is. . .What leads to that sexual tension between your hero and heroine?

Give some examples you've used in your own writing.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Weekend Over

Ahh! The weekend is over. Did you get to enjoy some of the spring weather? Or did you stay indoors and write all weekend? HA!

Saturday I fought with my love scene off and on. Then the whole chapter ended up longer than anticipated. But, my editor will like that. And dad, minus the red marks, liked the chapter so that's cool.

I spent several hours Sunday doing outdoor clean up. I trimmed a bunch of stuff, moved leaves that I didn't get to in the fall, and saw tulips, pansies, and primrose all coming back up. Hoping for fruit on my trees this year.

After all that fresh air, I came inside and wrote. I actually managed to write about four pages in the next chapter and am hoping to get it finished today so I can take it and the love scene to critique tomorrow.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Romance Writing T-shirt vote

Okay, so after meeting the women that own www.youdontsaynotogirls.com, I decided I wanted a T-shirt made to reflect romance writing without it saying romance writing.

Now what we have to do, with your help, is narrow the list to 2 at the most 3 sayings. So here are your choices. Please vote and let me know what you think.

The front of the shirt will say "You don't say no to girls"
On the back it will say any of these, unless you have a better suggestion:

. . .who create happy endings
. . .who provide a great climax
. . .who tell tales
. . .who keep you up all night
. . .capture you cover to cover
. . .with novel ideas
. . .who can make you blush
. . .who do it and write about it

Let me know which if any you like or make another suggestion. Remember, it is about romance writing.

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